You begin being totally innocent, then you start to grow up. Growing up is not always easy; things come at you when you least expect. Surprises come at you every day or year. Just when you think you have things the way you want them, wham! Another surprise comes, and it's not happy ones either. But living a safe life cannot be the best there is to offer. Sometimes we just have to do what we have to do in our way through life the best we can.